Books and Videos

Books | Videos

Books

Our Heartbreaking Choices: Forty-Six Women Share Their Stories of Interrupting a Much-Wanted Pregnancy, published 2008 by IUniverse www.ourheartbreakingchoices.com

Difficult Decisions: For Families Whose Unborn Baby Has a Serious Problem, by Patricia Fertel, published 2004 by Centering Corporation www.centering.org

Empty Cradle, Broken Heart, Revised Edition: Surviving the Death of Your Baby by Deborah L. Davis, 1996 Fulcrum Publishing

The Dive :: A Memoir The Dive is the story of the anguish of a mother-to-be, faced with a heartwrenching choice that will change forever her ideas about “the right thing to do.”, published by Kismuth www.kismuth.com

Precious Lives, Painful Choices: A Prenatal Decision-Making Guide, by Sherokee Ilse, published 1993 by www.wintergreenpress.com

A Silent Sorrow, Pregnancy Loss, by lngrid Kohn, MSW and Perry-Lynn Moffitt with Isabelle A. Wilkins, M.D., published in 2000 by Routledge

Surviving Pregnancy Loss: A Complete Sourcebook for Women and Their Families by Rochelle Friedman, M.D. and Bonnie Gradstein, Revised Edition 199, by Citadel

A Time to Decide, A Time to Heal: For Parents Making Difficult Decisions About Babies They Love, edited by Molly A. Minnick, ACSW and Kathleen J. Delp, ACSW, with Mary C. Ciotti, M.D., New Fourth Edition 1992, published by www.pineapplebooks.com

Another Baby? Maybe... 30 Questions Regarding Pregnancy After Loss, by Sherokee Ilse and Maribeth Wilder Doerr, published by www.wintergreenpress.com

For Better Or Worse: For Couples Whose Child Has Died, by Maribeth Wilder Doerr, published 1992 by www.centering.org

Life Line: A Journal for Parents Grieving a Miscarriage, Stillbirth or Other Early Infant Death, by Joanie Reid, published 1994 by Pineapple Press

What You Can Say When You Don't Know What to Say: Reaching Out to Those Who Hurt, by Lauren Briggs, published 1985 by Harvest House Publishers. Written from a Christian perspective, this book provides positive solutions for difficult situations.

When Preqnancy Fails, by Susan Borg and Judith Lasker, Revised Edition, 1988, Bantam Books

Videos

Support for Prenatal Decision - Developed as a teaching aid for professional and paraprofessionals working in the field of genetics and prenatal diagnosis, this film presents a panel of parents who have experienced prenatal diagnosis and chose to interrupt their pregnancy. Rental price is $35 plus shipping; purchase price is $95 plus shipping. Contact Support for Prenatal Decision, PO Box 7523, Redlands, CA 92375.

Teaching videos available from the Family Health lnstitute, PO Box 904, Alma, MI 48801, (517) 463-2779.

Who Cares for the Caregiver? by Jack M. Stack, MD - A lecture and discussion of the pain experienced by a wide range of caregivers including dysfunctional behaviors and methods of dealing with losses.

Empty Arms: A Tribute to Jacob by Jack M. Stack, MD and Kim Barnas, BS - A sensitive videotape exploring the effect of reproductive loss on the woman, her family and professional caregivers. This 54-minute interview between the mother of stillborn baby Jacob and her family physician, has been used successfully for teaching students, physicians, nurses and other caregivers about the empathic management of this family tragedy and also about the care of the professional caregivers. Purchase price is $150.00 for each video which includes postage. Contact Family Health Institute.



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Mothers tell their stories...


I told her how sorry I was and that I loved her and did not want her to suffer. I would rather suffer every day for the rest of my life than to allow her to suffer one moment in life.

~Mom of an Angel

Everything was going great. As already having two "normal" pregnancies under my belt, I felt confident. I knew there was always that chance of hearing bad news but I said "no, not me, not our baby."

We felt that if our daughter had been in a car accident and was on life support with the same internal injuries, we would not keep her on life support and let her suffer. This child deserved the same dignity."

~ A grieving mom

I initially thought I would "be brave" and continue my pregnancy. But I came to realize that ultimately it wasn't about how strong I could be, how deeply I wanted this baby or what important lessons he could teach me. It was about what he would experience in his short life. Given his diagnosis, he would have known only suffering. As his mother, I couldn't allow that to happen.

~ A mother at peace

It was our ignorance for believing that all pregnancies led to a healthy baby. It was my arrogance for believing that since I had the best medical care, took prenatal vitamins even before and during my pregnancy, never took drugs, never smoked cigarettes and drank about half a glass of wine a year, that our baby would be safe.

~A bereaved mother

A mother will stop at nothing, including her own hurt, both mentally and physically, to protect her child.

~Brokenhearted Mother